Is your sex life getting a little ho hum? Do you just want to spice it up a bit? Many middle aged men want to indulge in a little fantasy, but walking into a sex shop is not the easiest thing to do.
The ultimate fear...walking into your neighbor...or your teacher from elementary school..or worse your (you fill in the blank). Well, this is no time for a lecture, but this is where the internet is a great place to shop.
So go ahead and surf the web using search engines or check out some of the sites below. Even sites like Amazon sell intimate toys.
What do I buy? Well, there is quite a variety of toys and enhancers you can buy. The basic toys are what is known as vibrators. These come in many shapes, sizes and features...yes features. This is a basic toy in your toy chest. They are fun for you and your partner. Even fun for you when you are alone.
Next you can move into other toys, lubricants, straps, ramps to create comfortable and new positions, and even swings. Yes swings. Sometimes all it takes are ideas which you can get by watching videos, instructional sex videos or intimate movues.
If you are a little uncertain, as many middle aged men are, about this area start slowly. Get a basic vibrator and try it out with her in the privacy of your bedroom. Then let yourself explore from there.
One last note. If you have kids running around, get a lockable tool box or some other securable container (or keep it up high). No need for the kids to find these or you may have some explaining. Also, keep the toys clean. There is toy cleaner available. Sometimes, baby shampoo works well. Be careful though, about putting the toys in water...check to see if they can be exposed to water and/or are submersible. Also, check if the lubricants are water based or silicone based or other. Some things may break down latex so check if they are latex safe. This may be a problem for some condoms and other toys.
Go ahead...take a peek...order that little something that could more than just spice up your sex life. Be careful now...the article and links contain some graphic accessories!
Here are a couple toys purchased by some readers and shoppers at Amazon.com.
Doc Johnson i-Vibe Rabbit Vibrator, Strawberry
Hand Held Personal Massager - Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrating Massager by Vibratex Deluxe Package
Looking for more. The web is full of shops for discrete shopping.
EdenFantasys.com - Adult Toy Store (A well designed site with a great selection - one of our faves)
Liberator.com - Boudoir - Sex furniture for more fun
Liberator.com - Playful Restraints
Cinema Worth a watch.
Swings and things
Black Label Wedge/Ramp Combo
